HOW TO DO IT WITH CHILD DISEASES
However, the main cause of childhood diseases is a lack of love and attention to the child.
What if a childhood illness is a call for parental love?
If the child is sick, this is a signal that something is wrong in your relationship. Review your relationship with him. Try not to be near the child, but with him. Maintain in him the value of his personality.
You can cope with childhood diseases if you give him love every day, regardless of his state of health.
Analyze how you communicate with a healthy and sick child. Is there a difference in your behavior? If when a child is sick, you strengthen your love and attention, then, quite possibly, you reinforce his illness in this way.
Try to ensure that, being healthy, the child receives the same amount of love, warmth, attention and care from you as when the child is sick. And then he will not need the disease.
It is very important for a child to see and feel your love through words, touches, views, caring for him, understanding and accepting him for who he is. It is clear that verbal approval, kisses and hugs, gifts are important for all children, and that they listen and understand, and help, and explain, and play.
But each child is unique, and someone needs affectionate words, praise more, someone cares about touch, and someone cares about the time you spend with him. Observe how pleasant it is for your child to receive love and do it.
If you do not know how to express love (and many do not know how, since you yourself did not receive parental love in childhood), learn this. Love your children! Express your love! And they will hurt less!
The growth and development of the child occurs by itself. Do not interfere with this, do not rush things. In a family, children are like flowers, and parents are like gardeners who care for flowers, making sure that they have enough air, water, and sun. Each of us has an intuitive wisdom – listen to it, direct love to your children. And they will be healthy.
If your child has a chronic illness, be sure to consult a psychologist. If the child is sick a lot and often, it is also important to seek psychological help. Leading the child to a psychologist is not necessary at all, since often the causes of childhood diseases lie in the family, that is, consultation is necessary, first of all, to parents.
One of the effective short-term methods of psychological assistance if a child is sick is constellations. A huge advantage of this method is that parents or one of the parents can come to an arrangement without a child and work out the causes of childhood illness in one session.